Sunday, February 1, 2009

A Broken Heart


A friend of mine, due to being rejected by a girl, thinks he is unsightly, unattractive and undesirable. Few of his stumbling blocks include a couple of gray hair, a lean body and complaints I cannot recall. Vogue to him would be dressed like a dashing celebrity. Apparently he has just made up his mind to remain in a melancholy mood all the time. According to him, working out in a gym, building a six-pack and getting a total makeover done to his physical appearance would solve all his problems.

Dealing with heartbreaks can be really difficult, one word to describe it would be “Anguish”, crying and confronting could definitely ease the pain. Praying works out the best, nothing like it, God really loves you; trust him to heal the wounds, Dude! India is the second largest populated country in the world, I am sure you will find someone really nice, who accepts you the way you are, if your not happy with India, you have lot other options like exploring the world (:. Nobody existing in this universe is ugly it’s just that everyone’s not drop dead gorgeous. Stop condemning instead start loving and appreciating your self.
I was someone who ran the race at hundred miles per hour in the wrong direction; it took me a couple of years to realize. I was eighteen when I spotted a single strand of gray hair on my head; the finding left me feel kind of low, humiliated and paranoid. “ Scissors or hair colour”, it had to be scissors, hair colour meant draining out the entire months pocket money. The definition of fashion statement during my teenage era was following the herd, it didn’t matter whether things suited me or not. The diet fever led me live on carrots alone, I did loose a few pounds here and there, but ended up looking like a dried up leaf.
I am sure Tom Cruise, Brad Pitt and many other good looking guys have experienced the heart break trauma at some point in their lives, no one becomes an exceptions to heart breaks by getting a physical makeover done, everyone encounters it, the difference is some face it in their early stages where as others go through it much later. Take life as it comes “ All women are not B****S” few may be, such tales only make you a better person.